YOUR WORDS KILL ME

          Do you know what is very sharp compared to any sharp object ?  Yes, the answer is the mouth or words of humans . Now, this trait that is hurtful is known as bullies .This bully can even take alot of victimis just by words . 

          In the form of verbal bullying this is done such as insulting others, discouraging others or speaking harshly so as to make people or victims of bullying hurt.The cause of this bully is an arrogant attitude that wants to feel powerful. and the are several types of bullies by mouth, such as bullies directly and online bullies.

           The first, bullies directly, we realize when talking to friends, family, or with others, we say words that hurt, without us knowing that we have done directly through our mouths. It when joking, so we do not realize they have insulted or hurt their hearts. So that makes them uncomfortable and lose confidence because of our words. Throwing words up to hurt someone and lead to a fight, like the case that happened in Pekanbaru. "Starting from a joke, the offender did not accept the words that were thrown from the victim who made the offender offended, so that this junior high school student violence against his friend. Pekanbaru, Tuesday (11/5/2019) 11:00 KOMPAS.com" (PEKANBARU, KOMPAS.com - An unfortunate fate experienced by the FA, a student of SMP 38 Pekanbaru, Riau. The victim was bullied by two classmates.) And not a few people who feel insecure to close themselves closed because of what people say, as is the case in Anambas "A schoolgirl, abused by her teacher by calling the girl with harsh words in public, so the student does not want to go to school because she feels embarrassed and psychologically depressed.Anambas, Saturday (1/18/2020)" TribuBatam.id (TRIBUNBATAM.id, ANAMBAS - Recently the Anambas Islands were shocked by the improper treatment of a school teacher in the Anambas Islands on their students. ) Even this month can attack someone's psychic, such as the case of elementary school children being bullied " An elementary school student in Sungai Ulak, Merangin Regency, Jambi Province. She was depressed and had to be hospitalized due to bullying just because she didn't want to share a cheat sheet, until she was bullied by 3 of her friends." Suara.com (Suara.com - SN (13), elementary school student in Ulak River, Merangin Regency, Jambi Province must lie down crying while in the Regional General Hospital (RSUD) Colonel Abundjani Bangko. The sixth grade student was suspected of experiencing trauma and depression after getting bullying from six of his school friends. )

             Finally, Online bulllies, online bullies are often found on social media, whether on facebook, instagram, or comment on blogging. Online bullies are very easy, do not have to meet or meet face to face, just by commenting on social media accounts someone uses unfavorable words that make the account owner feel offended, even bullies online are more dangerous and can cause some evil. like murder and others.And with this online bully, it can provoke contention, such as the beatings "started as a media bulletin, Audrey a junior high school student in Pontianak, became a victim of violence by 3 of her friends.Pontianak, Wednesday (10/4/2019)" detiknews .(Allegations of violence experienced by A stems from bickering due to mutual ridicule between A and high school students in social media. One student with the initials Ec alias NNA (17) admitted that the fight started from him with A because of his frustration with the victim who often bullied himself at social media ). Just by making a comment, this bully can make you insecure even to the point of being sick, as is the case with the famous artist's child in indonesia "because of a bully comment from one of the social media users, the firstbron child of a well-known Indonesian artist Ussy sulistiawaty, became a victim due to body samming through social media bullies which resulted in his child not wanting to eat and get sick ".Tirto.id (tirto.id - Cases of cyber bullying or harassment again occur. This time it happened to the child of artist and presenter Ussy Sulistiawaty ). although not face to face, online bullies are very painful, even to the point of making someone alone and to end his life,like the case a famouse artist in Korea " Because of the social media scorn, he became stressed until Choi Jin Ri, aka Sulli, a Korean artist, hanged herself ".Kompas.com (KOMPAS.com - The death Sulli's manager found the hanging star in his apartment in Seongnam on Monday (10/14/2019) at 15:21 local time. )

         So the conclusion is, us your words well and think before you say them, because just a few words can make other people feel hurt and lack confidence.(conclusion)